In NVC, distinguishing facts from interpretations is essential. Test your skills with this interactive exercise.
Observations include specific details: numbers, times, exact quotes.
"Always", "never", "everyone" are signs of judgment, not observation.
Words like "lazy", "selfish", "rude" are judgments, not facts.
If you're assuming what someone thinks or wants, it's a judgment.
Master the complete OSBD process step by step
You will see 12 statements. For each one, decide if it's a factual observation or if it contains a judgment or interpretation.
Observation
Describes facts without interpretation
Judgment
Contains evaluation or interpretation